April, 2009
by Shannon K. Spellman, M.S.W.
April is a month for new beginnings. If you struggle with the never-ending grounded still again cycle with your teen, consider trying the clean slate approach just once by having a serious discussion with your teen and setting up very clear boundaries for starting over.
Tell your adolescent that as a parent, you realize your method of discipline hasn't been working and you are considering that this may partially be your fault. Tell your teenager that you would like to help him/her start over in order to have more freedom and less conflicts.
Since grounding isn't working, involve your teen in creative consequences by having them suggest what appropriate punishments should entail. Try some of these suggestions for one month if needed. Also, give your adolescent the opportunity to earn extra privileges by demonstrating mature respectful behaviors.
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